Hello All,
We just came back from the dog park where my dogs had a marvelous time. Today there was mostly large breed dogs and all the owners were confident and comfortable. I did not have to stop any kind of play and my dogs were gentle and kind to everyone.
Just to comment, if I knew the Yorkie, and its owner I would have let them work it out. Perhaps I was submitting to social pressure, since honestly I was feeling judged for having my big dog trying to initiate play with the Yorkie. I perceived that people thought my dog was vicious, and I am very sensitive to the comfort of others around my dogs. (I know I might have an issue here )
The owner looked nervous, I felt bad, and I called my DDB off. My DDB is well behaved and quite playful and he immediately ceased all action.
In retrospect, I was annoyed at the owner. On this particular day there were five to six small white dogs and a only a few big breed, so maybe I think I just felt a harsh public opinion. There was an owner keeping her dog on the picnic table with her...etc...
I spent a lot of time working instead of playing with my dog, since the Yorkie kept on coming back. The little guy had us in his sites...
Please remember that I asked (while my dogs were on leash and before I entered the park) if it was okay. I was willing to take my dogs elsewhere. If the Yorkie was fearful, or aggressive from a past incident- please say so.
I want my dogs to have fun and play well.
I think that taking my dogs back for formal training is a great suggestion. I did have a hard time understanding if this was a timid, but playful Yorkie who was "trying his best" to play with my dog, or if it was an aggressive act.
Regardless, I am proud of my DDB who listens well off leash and in highly stimulating situations, and I will not go to that dog park if the Yorkie is there in the future. We have way more fun chasing balls and romping around without the hassle.
Thanks for the great debate. It is an interesting thread to read.
Cheers,
Joanne