I honestly think the best bet for you is a good trainer that can show you how to work with her.
Of all the advice we can give on here, we can't assess your body language and posture and reaction with her, and show you how to correct it (which is probably a big part of the issue). A trainer can do that.
You already know about trying treats and stuff like that, but you have to remember also to keep your energy directed FOWARD. This is true of most animals when you try to lead them.
A big mistake people make is to face backward toward the animal and call to them. If you're facing the opposite direction of where you want them to go it will often confuse them or make them apprehensive as they feel like you aren't confident in what you want, so why should they trust to follow you. This is why with horses you can have one person struggling and pulling as hard as they can and getting frustrated while FACING the horse and the horse just stands there and holds their ground. Then someone very experienced and confident comes along, takes the lead while facing the other direction and the horse automatically follows them. It is often the same with dogs. That's what I mean by you want your energy going FOWARD. If you use treats don't turn around and call the dog to you, hold it down by your side while facing the direction you'd like to go. Be confident, happy and energetic. Keep a smile on your face and act relaxed and comfortable, never frustrated.
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