[bravewolf]

I firmly believe that any dog of any breed can be good or bad with children, depending on how the dog and the kids are raised together. Have you considered an older rescue from a reliable background? Children and young dogs of highly active breeds like the Lab and Boxer can be difficult (but by no means impossible) to manage. An older dog who has been given up for reasons unrelated to temperament could be a perfect addition to the family. The breeders you mention may be able to help you find a reputable rescue that screens both dogs and potential owners.

Another alternative is to adopt a mixed breed. Mixed breeds have been used for hearing assistance for many years. Also, Boxer and Lab mixes are very common crosses - you should have no trouble finding one of these.

If you are sold on a puppy from a good breeder then you may want to contact a few breeders/breed clubs on the dog/child issue. Maybe see if they can point you to a few of their puppy buyers who have children to see what those dog owners think on the subject.

Hope this helps,
Bravewolf